Wednesday, September 12, 2012

Designing Women | 9/12/2012

Nancy Mann

By Mary Jane Howell, Photography by Gary Knoll

The year 1975 was a tumultuous one around the world – the war in Vietnam escalated and then came to an end, political assassinations abounded, there were revolutions and natural disasters. In the midst of the turmoil, however, it was a banner year for sports. Muhammad Ali and Joe Frazier whipped the world into a frenzy with the fight that was dubbed the “Thrilla in Manila,” Bjorn Borg, Arthur Ashe, Chris Evert and Billie Jean King were the stars of tennis, while Jack Nicklaus and Tom Watson ruled the fairways. It was the year of the great filly Ruffian, who overshadowed her male counterparts, but lost her life after breaking down in a match race with the Kentucky Derby winner Foolish Pleasure.
On March 26 of that same year, Nancy Mann (then called Nancy Bielan) won the third race at Rhode Island’s Lincoln Downs in what was only her third start as a professional jockey. The horse, a 6-year-old chestnut gelding named Norse Plume, paid $82.80 for the win. Nancy was 19 and was less than a year out of high school. Norse Plume was owned and trained by Florence Gemma, a wellrespected trainer in New England.

Fast-forward several decades - Nancy is now living in Aiken and designing equestrian properties. Quite a transition from the life of a jockey!

“Designing has always been in my blood,” says Nancy. “My mom was a phenomenal designer – whether she was making a cocktail dress or helping someone design their patio – she just had that special touch. We lived in Barrington, Rhode Island, not exactly Milan, but my mom made sure that I had lots of opportunities.”

Ballet and art classes were the norm for Nancy, but she begged for (and received) her first horse when she was 10. A few years later she got a really good pony and although he frequently ran off with her, he would jump anything. During summers and on weekends Nancy spent most of her free time at the Palmer River Riding Club, honing the riding skills that would be invaluable to her later on the track. She fox hunted, showed jumpers and was in Pony Club. She also rode her fair share of Thoroughbreds fresh off the track.

While Nancy was still in high school she caught the eye of Terry Dunleavy, a local trainer, who, after seeing her in action at a Pony Club rally told her she should be at the race track galloping horses. He introduced Nancy to several trainers and before she knew it she was exercising horses on weekends and during summer vacations.

As soon as Nancy graduated from Barrington High School, she was off to the track. In those days a rider had to be apprenticed to a trainer, and Florence Gemma took Nancy under her wing.

After her win on Norse Plume, there was no stopping the young jockey. She continued to ride at Lincoln Downs, then moved on to Narragansett Park, the track where she had the most success. On October 16, 1975, she rode two winners on the card – Lorello and Summer Winds. In one win picture she is in pink silks, in the other in yellow, but the smile is the same – that ear-to-ear grin of a teenager living her dream at 19.

With the confidence earned from her success at Lincoln Downs and Narragansett, Nancy moved her tack to Suffolk Downs in Boston and Rockingham Park in Salem, New Hampshire; larger tracks with better purses. The flip side, however, was that at Suffolk there was a pre-existing jockey colony that was tough to crack.

“I had better success at Rockingham,” recalls Nancy. “I was riding some nice horses and having a good time. It was my third year of riding professionally and I had been fortunate in that I hadn’t had many spills.”

That changed when a horse she was on went down in a multi-horse crash, catapulting Nancy to the ground. She was in the hospital several days with internal bleeding and both shoulders dislocated. It could have been worse and she knew it.

“In the hospital I realized that being a jockey wasn’t really my life’s dream after all and it wasn’t worth the risk,” she says. “That spill was horrific. The horse directly in front of me had clipped heels and fell, and there was no way my horse could avoid him – and we went down as well. When I was released from the hospital the Rockingham stewards called me into the office and had me watch a replay of the race, a common practice after a rider has had a bad spill. I rode only one more race after that and won it. It was important for me to go out on a winning note.”

Not sure what she wanted to do with her life, Nancy worked for the well-known horseman Mason Phelps for a year at his Newport stable, going back to her roots in the hunter jumper world.

Nancy knew she could and should be doing more with her life and so did her family. Her stepfather had heard about American Intercontinental University, a design college in London, and helped Nancy go there. She finished her degree in three years and made the most of her time in Europe, traveling to all the great cities and soaking up the culture. Nancy has been on the university’s board of trustees since 1986 and the board’s chairman for the past two years.

“I took zillions of photos during that time – learning so much about color and detail – and I have used that in what I design today,” she explains. Upon graduation Nancy returned to the United States and moved to Atlanta where she became district manager for GF Furniture Systems.

After several years of the corporate world and travelling five days a week, Nancy felt as if it was time to move on. She consulted on the design for the first equestrian subdivision in the Southeast – Tullamore in Alpharetta, Georgia.

“The people I worked for were land people, not horse people,” she says. “I was able to bring a horse person’s perspective to the table and I really enjoyed that. I also designed my first property – 16 acres on the back end of Tullamore. I liked the building process and I really felt that I had found my niche.”

She was not yet ready to settle down, however. Nancy sold her Tullamore property, moved to the north Georgia mountains, got a few horses, built another farm, and started a home design and building business. She packed a lot into the next few years, but when she hit 40 she knew she had to have time for herself.

“My parents had moved to Hilton Head and on one of my many trips to visit them I took an alternate route and ended up driving through Aiken. I fell in love with the town,” she says.

One of the first people she connected with was Linda Knox McLean, which led to rides in the Hitchcock Woods and eventually hunting with the Aiken Hounds.

“Linda was the kindest first contact anyone could ask for,” she says. “We just hit it off and it seemed like I was in Aiken all the time. Life was coming together for me – I felt like I was truly coming home when I was in Aiken.”

In 1996 Nancy purchased property on Coker Springs Road and set about designing and building a home that met the stringent requirements of Aiken’s historic horse district. From there she purchased 50 acres on Route 302 and developed two farms. Horses and riding were still in her life. She whipped-in for Aiken Hounds starting in 1998 and eventually held the same position with Why Worry Hounds from 2000 to 2002. She also learned the art of navigating in driving competitions, teaming with Peggy and Megan Benge beginning in 2000. In 2005, she went to the World Combined Pony Championship in England to navigate for Jennifer Matheson, who represented Canada.

“I was a last minute substitute, as Jennifer’s usual navigator couldn’t go. So I flew over to Amsterdam with the pony Danyloo and got a ferry to England where we spent the next seven weeks training and competing,” says Nancy. “The World Championships were held at Catton Hall in Derbyshire, a marvelous estate. I also had the opportunity to meet Prince Phillip and share a Pimms and some interesting conversation!”

At 56, Nancy laughs that she is a really late bloomer and that she’s only hitting her stride right now. She works frequently with Mitch Johnson, a local builder, and brings to the table not only a horsewoman’s experience in what works in a barn and farm, but also a lifelong passion for design – whether it is the marriage of heart pine and old brick in a new home, or finding the perfect color of paint for a light-filled bedroom.

Last year Nancy was given free rein to develop an Aiken property for Dana Pope and his family, who call Massachusetts home for much of the year. Their trainer is Sarah Morton, so the property encompasses a barn for their horses as well as for horses belonging to Sarah’s clients. The Popes wanted their home to have understated elegance and yet be comfortable for family and friends.

“Nancy offered us a soup to nuts building experience, walking us through site layout, building design, functionality of interior spaces and finally interior finishes that reflect a southern charm. Building a horse farm and home from New England can be nerve wracking. Nancy, as a horsewoman with a great sense of humor, knew what we needed and wanted and made it fun,” explains Dana Pope.

The Popes’ property, named High Meadow Farm, is the latest chapter in Nancy’s varied life, but certainly not the last.

This article is copyrighted and first appeared in The Aiken Horse. It is reprinted here by permission.

Wednesday, September 5, 2012

Do Unto Your Horse | 9/5/2012

To change your horse, change yourself first

By Ray Wheeler

The biggest part of my life has been spent around horses. When I first started, I came up in the way fairly typical of the time. My riding was relegated to breaking in babies. I considered this to be a poor use of my talent. Despite this I toiled on, waiting for someone to come along and buy me a string of quality horses with the appropriate budget, facility and a work force to take me to the top.

Then a funny thing happened. I found myself liking what I was doing. As time went on, I realized how much all of those horses had taught me, and how valuable those experiences were.

Nowadays I give lessons, do ground work and pass on what I have learned.

Some of the simplest things have great impact. I think people overlook or dismiss them, thinking ‘how can something that would fit inside a fortune cookie really be so powerful?’ But of you give these things a chance, you may find it easier than you ever thought to create significant and positive change in your riding. So here are some simple things you can try.

First: Reward sooner. Most people are late with their rewards and timing is important. When things get tough, we get worse. The horse gives a little try, too often there is no acknowledgement because we’re upset or don’t think the try is sufficient. It’s so important that at the moment the horse tries, the rider should soften enough to say ‘Yes. You’re on the right track.’ Don’t become adversarial with your horse. Remember, reward improvement, not perfection.

Second: Establish a reasonable emotional range in yourself. We all want our horse to be calm, focused and relaxed. Our horses want and deserve the same from us

Third: Give your horse a chance to be light by being light yourself. It drives me a little crazy to see people who jam their heel or spur into their horses’ sides as they walk, trot or canter off. It’s the epitome of lazy and thoughtless. Try using your calf and teach your horse to respond to it. A good aide should be issued in a clear, thoughtful manner. The horse should respond promptly and with the appropriate amount of energy. This is not that hard to do. All it really takes is consistency and the desire to create positive change.

Fourth: Visualize positive images. Most people only visualize when they get nervous and see impending disaster. And look how often it comes true. Before you ride or before a competition, take a few moments to go through things in your head. Focus on detail: feel it, hear it, see it. Remember to visualize a positive outcome. If you do this, I see good things in your future. See how easy it is?

Fifth: Know there’s a difference between rigid and strong. Strong allows you to maintain your position and stay with the movement. Strong means you resist with only the appropriate muscles. Rigid means tense. It means you can’t stay with the movement, and it means your horse’s chiropractor, acupuncturist, and vet will all be sending you Christmas cards expressing thanks for all the business you’ve sent them.

Sixth: If you find yourself in a real jam, stop. Everything can be broken down into simpler parts. Find out what part is broken, fix it and then put it all back together. Let’s say you’re having trouble with your leg yield. Maybe your horse bulges his shoulder. If you can’t fix it by leg yielding, stop leg yielding and do some exercises that enhance your horse’s response when you ask him to move his shoulder. Maybe counter bend on a circle, or ride some square patterns. Once you make some progress there, go back to the leg yield and try again. As the old saying goes, if you find yourself in a hole, stop digging.

Seventh: Love your horse for being a horse. He’s not a dog, a person or a motorcycle. You may think there’s nothing to practice here, but there is. If you don’t see your horse for who and what he is, your perspective of how he thinks, learns, sees life and what is important to him and what’s not, will all be skewed.

Eighth: Teach and allow your horse to try. He will never reach his potential at anything until he tries. That means you can’t be harsh with a horse for giving you the wrong answer. It’s how he learns. You must be careful not to inhibit this. For example, if you ask your horse to trot more forward, and he canters, don’t pull him up abruptly. Bring him back to trot, and ask him again.

As I look over this list, I realize that many of these things are simple statements, but not necessarily simple things to carry out. That’s riding isn’t it? But you can learn just the way your horse can, by giving a little try. If you are rewarded by finding a better response from your horse, you will know you are on the right path.

Ray Wheeler is a graduate of Lamar College in Colorado where he majored in horse training & management and has been training horses and riders for more than 30 years. His wife, Beth, is an eventer. Together they operate Wheeler Equestrian out of Hopeland Farm in Aiken.

This article is copyrighted and first appeared in The Aiken Horse. It is reprinted here by permission.